Considering what Christ, the Holy One, has forgiven us for, we have no right to hold anything against another.
I wish I could apply this to everyone in my life. I have come a long way tho. I have let go of a lot. But there are a few things I just cannot get over and for some reason it involves family/extended family. Why is easier for me to forgive those not related to me? The only thing I can think of is the saying “You can choose your friends but not your family”
I know that I have to answer for my reluctance to forgive. I know in my head what I have to do. I just can’t get my heart to line up. I hope to be able to get there one day. I really do.